There is a myth that sexual violence is only carried out by strangers. In reality, most sexual abuse is committed by someone who is known to and trusted by the victim.

Sexual violence and abuse is never the fault of the victim. Sexual violence and abuse is an extremely distressing experience and the effects can be long lasting. Victims often feel frightened, ashamed, powerless, angry, guilty, depressed and worthless. Close relationships can often be badly affected.

Everyone who has been the victim of sexual violence and abuse reacts differently and it is not unusual for feelings to change from day to day and with time.

It can be difficult to talk about what happened to fiends or family. Some people do not want to tell anyone what happened. However, support and understanding are important and it helps to have someone to talk to in confidence, no matter how long ago the event happened.

Victim Support provides a free and confidential service to male and female survivors of recent and past sexual offences. We also support, partners, parents and other family members

Victim Support volunteers and staff understands the issues arising from sexual offences and will provide and opportunity to talk in confidence, in your own home, your local Victim Support office or some other suitable venue. You can disclose as much or as little as you wish. We can also provide information about other support agencies in the area.

Health issues

People who have experienced sexual violence are naturally concerned about the possibility of having been exposed to sexually transmitted infections. For women there may the added risk of unwanted pregnancy.

Hospitals and GP’s will see you on a confidential basis. There are also specialist clinics for specific infections that you can attend confidentially. Victim support can provide you with details of local health services and help you access specialist services.

Reporting the crime to the police

Victims of sexual violence and abuse must decide for themselves whether or not to report the assault to police. It can help to talk this through with someone before making a decision. Victim Support’s trained volunteers can help with information about police and court procedures. We can also arrange support from the Witness Service if the case goes to court. Compensation

Victims of sexual violence may be eligible for criminal injuries compensation. Victim Support can assist with applications.

Call victim Support on the number below or find your local service under Victim Support in the telephone directory or from our online directory at www.vssdirectory.org.uk